Ditch resolutions. Try this sexy ritual instead. 🫦


Hey Reader,

Can I tell you something? I hate New Year’s resolutions.

All that “new year, new you” noise? It feels like pressure to “fix” myself instead of celebrating who I already am. Honestly, it’s exhausting—and it’s not for me.

You know what feels way better? A ritual that’s about gratitude, rest, and tuning into my desires—not forcing myself into some “perfect” version of me.

I started doing this a few years ago when I realized January just… isn’t my vibe. It’s still winter, a time for slowing down and being grateful, not running full speed toward some arbitrary goal. Nature doesn’t start fresh until the spring equinox, so why should I?

Here’s what I do instead:

1️⃣ Set a timer for 10 minutes.
I grab a journal and write down everything I’m grateful for—big, small, and everything in between. The cozy moments. The belly laughs. The parts of myself I’m proud of.

2️⃣ Set another timer for 10 minutes.
Next, I dream up my desires for the year ahead. What do I want to feel? What do I want to experience? I let myself want big things, unapologetically!

3️⃣ Put on a sexy song. (like this one or perhaps this one)
And then I move. Slow, wild, playful—it depends on the day. Sometimes, I strip tease for myself, just to remind myself that I am the object of my own desire.

I’m sharing this because I want you to know:
You don’t need to fix or change anything to feel good. You don’t need resolutions to start fresh. You just need a little space to celebrate where you are and dream about where you’re going.

Try it today, or whenever you need it most. And if you do, hit reply and tell me how it feels. I’d love to hear from you.

With love, gratitude and desire,
Marta

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