Dear Reader,

Let’s start with an uncomfortable truth: most of us don’t think about, let alone talk about, our vulvas. Or pussies. Or whatever word feels most right to you.

And that silence? It’s not an accident.

For centuries, we’ve been taught that this part of our bodies is shameful, secretive, even dangerous. But here’s the thing: your pussy is not a problem to solve or a mystery to lock away—it’s the source of your power, creativity, and joy.

So, let me ask you: What’s your relationship with your pussy right now?

• Do you feel connected to her, or does she feel like a stranger to you?
• When was the last time you felt proud of her, grateful for her?
• Or are you carrying the weight of shame, embarrassment, or even frustration when you think about her?

The truth is, you didn’t come into the world feeling this way. At some point, the culture (or your family, church, etc.) told you that your vulva was something to fix, hide, or ignore.

And those messages don’t just disconnect you from your body—they rob you of your sense of self.

Catherine Blackledge, in her book Raising the Skirt, shares that ancient cultures had a completely different perspective. Back then, women celebrated their pussies:

• Rituals like anasyrma, where women proudly revealed their vulvas to repel evil or demand justice, showed how powerful they were seen to be.
• Cave carvings, statues, and myths revered the vulva as the gateway to life, the literal and symbolic source of creation.

Somewhere along the way, the patriarchy stepped in and rewrote the story. Your pussy, once celebrated, became taboo. Why? Because disconnecting you from your body also disconnects you from your power.

But here’s the beautiful thing: that power is still yours.

Regena Thomashauer, in her transformative book Pussy: A Reclamation (which I HIGHLY recommend!), reminds us that reclaiming our vulvas isn’t just about the body—it’s about how we live our lives. She writes:

So, I want to ask you:

• What would it look like to truly own your pussy?
• What might change if you stopped seeing her as something to be ashamed of and started seeing her as your guide, your wisdom, your source of pleasure?
• How has the shame you’ve carried—often unconsciously—left you feeling disconnected, frustrated, or numb?

Here’s the truth you might not hear often enough: your pussy is yours to reclaim. She’s waiting for you to come home, to treat her with the love and care she deserves.

Start small. Today, take a moment to reconnect. Look at her in the mirror—not with judgment, but with curiosity. Place your hands over your pelvis, close your eyes, and breathe into her presence. Ask yourself: “What does she want to tell me?”

This is your invitation to let go of the shame and reawaken to the joy and aliveness that’s been here all along. Because when you reclaim your pussy, you don’t just reconnect with your body—you reclaim yourself.

With love, power, and a wink of unapologetic celebration,
Marta

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