the cure for your least favorite emotion


Reader,

I don't know about you, but I believe that shame is the most uncomfortable of emotions. Shame makes us shrink (literally and metaphorically). It holds us hostage. It strangles our self-confidence and our natural enthusiasm for life. And worst of all, it keeps us PLAYING SMALL.

I learned a LOT about shame during my first year of sobriety — and honestly, the lessons keep coming, because we live in a crazy world that has normalized the idea that there is something 'wrong' with us if we:

  • express strong emotions
  • aren't physically 'perfect'
  • are over 40 and female
  • don't follow a 'traditional' path in life (ie career, kids, marriage, etc)
  • and so on (way too many examples here to list them all)

Shame has done a number on ALL of us, often without our conscious awareness or consent. It seeps into our minds, bodies, and belief systems when we're too young to be discerning... and then it becomes FACT. We internalize the 'good girl' conditioning taught us and we don't even question it... all the while, we're slowly dying inside.

FUCK THAT, I say.

Let's BREAK that mold, shall we?

Let's turn shame inside out and upside down.

Let's LIBERATE ourselves from the rules that someone else has made for us.

LET'S BE SHAMELESS!!!

Join me and my friend + amazing Sex & Love Coach, Barbara Katsnelson, for a FREE workshop this coming Wednesday, June 19, at 9am Pacific/12pm Eastern called (...you guessed it!...) SHAMELESS.

During this deliciously naughty + liberating 90-minute session, you'll discover:

  • How to let go of the 'Good Girl' conditioning that keeps you stuck, turned-off, & stressed out
  • Why the world NEEDS you to welcome more pleasure & abundance into your life
  • What's possible for you when you fall in love with your body and feel confident, powerful, and sexy af — no matter your age, size, or title

Yes, there will be a replay (so sign up even if you're not sure you can make it live).

I promise you will NOT regret it!

With so much love & gratitude,

XOXO
Marta

PS. The super special PRE-SALE for The Well-F**ked & Well-Paid Woman, our brand new super hot group program is HAPPENING NOW!!! You can save HALF OFF tuition plus score some really juicy bonuses if you enroll BEFORE JUNE 19th! Payment plans starting at just $97 are available... get all the details right here 👇

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